I may be an introvert but I need my people. I need to feel wanted and I need to feel loved. Yes, I need my time to recharge sometimes but my preferred place is with my people, just sitting and observing them while they talk. I do want to be around others, I just want to be doing my own thing. Heaven is reading a book next to someone else who is reading a book. Or on my laptop while two other friends chat. Or going for a walk and having a one on one conversation. I may be an introvert but I still need people. I may be an introvert but I still need love.
Tag: infj
INFJs and Problems
I really have a hard time talking about what’s bothering me. I don’t want to burden you with my problems, worry you, make it seem like I need help, or rant about my bad day. It’s not that I don’t trust you. It’s just hard for me.
I feel the same way all the time.
“You said you like storms. So I let you in. Turns out you can only handle a little rain, and I am a hurricane”
— INFJ (via elixirofmemory)
INFJ Thing
You know that moment when you’re not attracted to anyone and you’re just going through life enjoying being single and knowing that your friends care about you?
It’s the best feeling ever. I’m complete on my own and I finally believe it.
INFJ Confession #1596
I love too hard and I dream too big. I crave attention but shy away from the spotlight. I love to love but I hate the heart ache. I feel everyone’s pain but no one seems to see mine. But, that’s okay, I don’t want any help; all I want is acceptance.
To all my INFJs
I know sometimes it feels like this world wasn’t meant for you. Don’t forget you make it better.
– INTJ
Things INFJs won’t ever admit
1. That they’re actually lonely.
2. That they’re tired of helping others sometimes.
3. That they need help too.
4. That they want people to put effort into understanding them, just as they put effort into understanding people.
5. That they don’t watch the news because it breaks their heart to know all the misfortunes that are happening around the world.
6. That they sometimes hate themselves and wish they were an extravert/any other common types so they could finally know how it feels to belong somewhere.
7. That they believe they’re going to die alone because they’re too complex to understand, and too demanding to love.
Person: I hate you
INFJ: I don’t care
Person: You’re ugly
INFJ: I don’t care
Person: You’re worthless
INFJ: I don’t care
Person: I hate your best friend
INFJ: * goes full Dirty Harry and pulls out a .44 Magnum* Say that again, punk
@thrones-of-a-game this is so true though, if anyone fucks with you I go balls to the wall lmfao
INFJ: *anxiety from social interaction*
Also INFJ: *depression from lack of social interaction*