Even putting aside your obvious intent to get Kai (:P), I do think you would go well with him. Your bisexuality would be able to benefit him, especially in recruiting more members – like if he was interested in recruiting a lesbian, or even just a woman whose preference was skewed more towards women or who just wasn’t interested in him, you could take up the role that he wouldn’t. Kai is always down for sex, he can get it up anywhere at any time, and he’s willing to work with so many kinks to work for an advantage, bonus if he gets to dominate.
Plus your fiery attitude could definitely present to him a challenge, or even just an interesting dynamic, and he would be all for that.
I always fear for Tate’s life when he and Ben are fighting and then I’m like oh shit…wait…