why limit yourself between choosing between a pretty feminine aesthetic or a dark one? if persephone can be the goddess of spring & queen of the underworld at the same time so can you
Election Night because I basically have that episode memorized. π
hot take: moms need to learn how to listen to and comfort their daughters without making everything about their own traumas
a classic example
daughter: hey this thing you do bothers me very much and i wish you wouldnβt do it
mom: well my parents abused me and im not even as bad as they were and i had to sit through it so you gotta sit through whatever i do to you too
a common variant
mom: well iβm having a really hard time right now and you know that iβm doing my best and that i didnβt mean to hurt you ergo you are in fact the asshole for asking me to consider your feelings and change my behavior during this hard hard time iβm having